Friday, October 30, 2015

Change Starts With Us

We have a saying, "Change your thinking, change your life" and so often it seems as if we want others to change. We want others to be nicer, to be kinder, and to be more considerate. We want others to be more responsible, to reach out to us, to step up and help out. We want others to forgive, to apologize, to be less angry, and to stop pushing our buttons. So while we may want things to change in our life, we don't always want to be the one to make the first move. 

How many times have we not used our inner wisdom and made the needed changes that we know will result in increased happiness or success? How many times do we keep doing the same things over and over because we've had some past success, even if it isn't working now? How often do we seem to demand that others change to our way of thinking and behaving? I wonder how many ways we are keeping our good from ourselves, whether it is in health, relationships, or finances simply because we continue to hang onto to old ideas or old patterns.

We are each brilliant and magnificent and we don't need to look outside of ourselves for validation or for proof of our value. We only need to look within and remember that everything we're looking for is already here; in fact, we ARE what we're looking for. Instead of hoping and wishing that things were different, we need to turn our thinking around from looking 'out there' to looking 'in here.' 

What steps can you take that will help make a change so that you can really fall in love with your life?

Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
As you listen to the Divine Wisdom within you, you will receive your inspiration and guidance. As you speak your word, think your thoughts, or make your affirmations with complete conviction, you will discover that you are using a Power that actually is, and that actually does respond to you. The Spirit within you is God, the infinite Source of your intelligence and wisdom and creative power.    
     ~ The Power of an Idea

About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.

Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.

Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com

Friday, October 23, 2015

The Search is Over

Sometimes we get caught up in falling in love with the idea of what success and happiness is according to someone else's definition. Maybe we spend a lifetime keeping up with the Jones' or trying to be the parent or grandparent someone else says is the right way to be. And we get so busy chasing someone else's dream, we may wake up one day and discover it was the wrong dream. 

Instead of chasing the dreams and goals of others, we get to determine what is right for us and we can wake up to the idea that things can be different and we can be different. And we don't have to settle for someone else's opinion. I love this twist on the Serenity Prayer:  God, grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change; the courage to change the one I can; and the wisdom to know that person is me.

We don't need to go in search of joy and happiness and success and love. The Truth is we are all of those things, and more. What we need to do is find the barriers within us that keep us apart from those things. And maybe one of the barriers was that we allowed someone else to determine our idea of joy, happiness, success, and love. Isn't it time to dissolve those barriers? You know, barriers like low self-esteem, grudge-holding, resentments, and inner criticism. Remove those, find the brilliance within, and fall in love with yourself.

How do I love thee? Look in the mirror and count the ways!

Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
"There is a song of the Universe - let's sing it. There is a hymn of praise - let's praise it. There is a joy, a beauty; there is a deep, abiding peace; let's experience it. There is a laughter of God - let's laugh it."     ~ Ideas of Power

About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.

Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.

Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com

Friday, October 16, 2015

Stop Fixing and Start Appreciating

Sometimes we love to entertain ourselves, don't we? We love to talk about the "ain't it awfuls," or how things aren't working out for us, or how we are confused, or how we need more money or better relationships or more joy, and how we are struggling in various ways. Yes, we are the stars of our very own horror movie. Of course we know intellectually that happiness is an inside job, but that's not always how we behave.
 
What if we stop trying to make things happen and simply allow things to happen once we establish a particular consciousness? When we look in the mirror and we don't like what we see, we don't try and fix the mirror, do we? And yet, that's exactly what we are doing when we look to the external world and try to fix things out there when we don't also work on adjusting what created that thing that needs to be fixed in the first place: namely our consciousness.

We have about 41 days until Thanksgiving. What if we spent time each day for the next 41 days appreciating our talents, being thankful for something that brought us joy, or being present and inspired by something we find beautiful? How might your life be different by Thanksgiving? Think about it. But don't only think - take some action.

I wonder how much your "I LOVE LIFE" meter might increase in just 41 days, not to mention a renewed sense of your awesomeness.

Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
Everything in the universe is a unique individualization or expression of the One Thing, which is the cause of all things. You should become aware that the One Creative Power is expressing in you in a unique way and that it is always pressing against you, seeking a fuller outlet of its infinite possibilities. You do not have to imitate or compete; you are a special creation of God and you have full access to the unlimited potential of Infinite Intelligence.
    
     ~ Thoughts are Things

About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through speaking, articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.

Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.

Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com

Friday, October 9, 2015

Rethinking Happiness

We all want to be happy, don't we? The problem is that we often have our external environment dictate whether or not we will be happy. If we have plenty of money we are happy; if we don't have very much money we are unhappy. If we have plenty of friends, we are happy; if we don't have too many friends, we are lonely and unhappy. If we have vibrant health with plenty of energy, we are happy; if we are in pain or get a diagnosis or are tired all the time, we are defeated and unhappy.
 
It is imperative for all of us to turn that around and Smile - Please display images for better viewingallow our inner life determine our outer life and not the other way around. And this type of changed thinking takes time and practice. And we may not get it perfect the first thousand times we try it, but we must persist. 
 
What if happiness was supposed to be our natural state of being? Maybe we need to have a new definition of 'happy.' How about this: happiness is a sense of connection to the Divine, happiness is loving ourselves no matter what, happiness is knowing what our bliss is, what our purpose is, and keeping that in mind, and happiness is being fully present in this moment. In this definition of happiness, anything happening in our outer world would have very little to do with our happy-factor. Why not give it a try?
 
Remember, what is within you is more powerful and infinitely superior to any circumstance in your life. And that is a reason to be happy!
 
Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
Happiness is an interior quality, a state of being, the result of knowing that in the long run the Divine will win, the knowledge that we can trust the integrity of the universe. Our good will come to us in such measure as we ourselves measure it out in our own experience.       ~ Science of Mind Magazine
 
About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.
 
Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.
 
Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com

Friday, October 2, 2015

New Beginnings

Much of our time is spent on unconscious thinking patterns and habits, so the directions we are giving to the Law of Mind are fuzzy and muddled. We might even be giving out mixed messages. And then we wonder why we haven't accomplished what we wanted, why we are in the jobs we're in, why our relationships struggle, or why we don't feel creatively fulfilled. We didn't give good directions. And by directions, I don't mean HOW something needs to be done, but the end result.  
 
It all begins with a new thought. And this newthought could be the beginning of opening up; the beginning of releasing old ideas and beliefs; the beginning of allowing and not controlling; the beginning of listening to our own inner brilliance. 
 
If we want a different outcome, we need to have a new beginning and a new thought. We don't need the magic bullet; we already have the magic bullet. We just haven't been aware that the answer has been within us all along. We don't need to be healed; Spirit needs to be revealed. Let's take off the burden of our limiting beliefs and reveal the Truth.
 
No matter how long you've been thinking a certain way, it's never too late to change and come home to your spiritual power.
 
Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
It has been proved that by thinking correctly and by a conscious mental use of the law of Mind, we can cause It to do definite things for us, through us. By conscious thinking, we give conscious direction to It.      ~ The Science of Mind
 
About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.
 
Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.
 
Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com