Friday, June 26, 2015

What Glasses Are You Wearing?

A man arrives in heaven and he is shown into God's office for judgment. One wall of the office is a picture window looking down on Earth. The Earth is beautiful with its blue waters, green forests, and white clouds. There is a pair of eyeglasses on the table. He says to himself, "Hmm, these must be God's glasses." He looked around and didn't see anyone so he put on God's glasses. He tries them on and looks at Earth again. Now he sees hunger, poverty, and sickness. There is so much inhumanity he can't bear it.

He hears a voice behind him. "Take off my glasses." He does so quickly and waits for his punishment.  After a pause a voice gently asked, "What did you see?" "I saw hate, corruption, and evil." God said, "Did you feel any love or compassion." "None," the man said. "I would destroy the whole planet without any hesitation or regret." God said. "That is why you can't use my glasses. You may not see what I see unless you feel what I feel."

We have opportunities each and every day to see
inhumanity, hunger, poverty, meanness, and resentment. We can see it in our lives, in the lives of the people we know and love, and on the news. But we have a choice to wear different glasses.
 
What resentments are we hanging onto? What regrets do we play over and over again? What secrets do we protect? What part of ourselves do we hide and not let anyone see? What sort of shame are we carrying around? What situations cause us to react and what pushes our buttons? In other words, what glasses are we wearing?

Are we wearing the glasses that allow us to see guilt and shame and resentment and envy and jealousy and righteous indignation and disrespect? If so, we need to take off those glasses and get one with a better prescription. And the best part? No need to make an appointment with the optometrist!
And the eye chart with the right glasses reads, "I am awesome!"

Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
Love is the principle of Life, for it is the nature of everything to give. Only the one who loves so much that there is no longer any room for hate will ever arrive at the place where, if there may be hate, he will never know it. We are afraid of greatness because we are so tied down to littleness. We clutch the littleness anxiously and jealously, but so precariously, to our hearts. It is essential to see beyond the littleness to something bigger. None of us is as perfect in expression as we ought to be. So the challenge to each of us is to be great enough to rise in love, in charity, through understanding and compassion. Love is the lodestone of life.          ~ 365 Science of Mind


About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.

Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.

Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com

Friday, June 12, 2015

Oops...

There is a story of two construction workers who ate lunch together.  Every day one of them would open his lunch box and exclaim in disgust, "Peanut butter and jelly again!" Finally the other inquired, "Why don't you ask your wife to fix something else?" "Oh I'm not married," was the reply. "I make my own lunch."

And that is often how it is with us; we wantsomething new and fresh. We yearn to express our inner genius in ways that will be meaningful, but when it comes to actually making a change, we seem stuck with the familiar. One of the main reasons many of us are not living the life we love is the propensity we have for limiting ourselves.

The second reason is the fear we have of making a mistake. I was thinking about this the other day and wondering why making a mistake is such a big issue for so many of us. It isn't as if we haven't made mistakes in the past. And we are very likely to make mistakes in the future, and yet, we want to stay away from making any, even if it means forward movement. 
 
Somehow our mistakes reinforce the idea that we are not lovable, not worthy, or not good enough. It ties in with our beliefs that we are flawed or that there is something wrong with us. There are very few of us who look at the idea of making a mistake and simply another step on our journey or proof of living life fully. Let's rethink that idea and remember our mistakes do not define us.
  
Dare to dream and soar into your future. Dare to be a better person than you
have ever been. Push past limitations and past the voice within and watch what happens!


Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
Whatever the mistakes of yesterday may have been, today is a new creation.  Turning from the errors of the past and no longer carrying with us the sorrows and mistakes of yesterday, today we may enter into a new experience...We should refuse to carry the negations of yesterday into the positive atmosphere of today, for today the world is made new in our experience. 
      ~ Richer Living

About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.

Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.

Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com

Friday, June 5, 2015

Making the Road Better

Once upon a time, a king had a great highway built for the people who lived in his kingdom. After it was completed, but before it was opened to the public, the king decided to have a contest. He invited as many of his subjects as desired to participate. The challenge was to see who could travel the highway the best, and the winner was to receive a box of gold.

On the day of the contest, all the people came. Some
Windy Road - please display images for better viewing.  Thanks.of them had fine chariots, some had fine clothing and fancy food to make the trip a luxurious journey. Some wore their sturdiest shoes and ran along the highway to show their skill. All day they traveled the highway, and each one, when he arrived at the end, complained to the king about a large pile of rocks and debris that had been left almost blocking the road at one point, and that got in their way and hindered their travel.

At the end of the day, a lone traveler crossed the finish line warily and walked over to the king. He was tired and dirty, but he addressed the king with great respect and handed him a small chest of gold. He said, "I stopped along the way to clear a pile of rocks and debris that was blocking the road. This chest of gold was under it all. Please have it returned to its rightful owner."

The king replied, "You are the rightful owner. You've earned this gold, for you won my contest. He who travels the road best is he who makes the road better for those who will follow."

How do we show up in this world and make the road better for those who follow? How do we show up as a beneficial presence? How do we remember that who we are makes a difference? What difference have we been wanting to make but have hesitated to begin?

What steps are right in front of you to take? What is yours to do? If you do your thing, then God can do Its thing, too.


Wisdom from Ernest Holmes
We should come to see that, as individuals, we have not really thought ourselves into limitation. What has happened is that the belief in limitation has operated through us, and our agreement with this belief has tended to vitalize it.

      ~ Living the Science of Mind


About Janet
Janet Kingsley, founder and spiritual leader of Center for Positive Living Sedona has been opening hearts and minds to infinite possibilities since 1998. Through articles, classes, and coaching she opens the heart, intrigues the mind, and feeds the spirit.

Janet is also a "Possibility Coach" and master energy healer. Focusing on helping people love their body, love themselves, and love their life, she is creating a movement and changing the world...one person at a time.

Find out more at www.janetkingsley.com